10 Common Sex Toy Mistakes You're Probably Making (And How to Fix Them)

Sex toys should be fun, empowering, and deeply satisfying. But even the best toys won’t deliver the magic if you’re using them wrong. From hygiene slip-ups to using the wrong materials, here are the 10 most common sex toy mistakes—and how to fix them fast.

Whether you’re a curious beginner or a bedroom pro, this guide will help you play safer, feel better, and get the most out of every moment.

1. Not Cleaning Toys Before and After Use

The risk: Bacteria, infections, and a not-so-fresh vibe.

Fix it: Clean your toys before and after each use using warm water and a toy-safe cleaner. If it’s waterproof, give it a proper rinse—no shortcuts.

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2. Using the Wrong Lube (or None at All)

The risk: Friction, discomfort, and damage to your toy.

Fix it: Use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys (never silicone-on-silicone—it breaks down the surface). And always lube up for anal play.

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3. Ignoring Material Safety

The risk: Irritation or exposure to toxic materials.

Fix it: Only use body-safe, non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, or stainless steel.

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4. Charging Unsafe or Incorrectly

The risk: Short circuits, battery damage, or even toy failure mid-play.

Fix it: Use the provided charging cable, avoid overcharging, and never charge toys while wet.

🔋 Most of our rechargeable toys come with smart safety features—so you can play worry-free.

5. Skipping the Warm-Up

The risk: Discomfort or lack of arousal.

Fix it: Take your time. Sensual touch, massage, or teasing with a feather or warm oil sets the mood and increases pleasure.

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6. Using the Same Toy for Everything

The risk: Cross-contamination and less excitement.

Fix it: Use different toys for anal, vaginal, and external play—or at least swap condoms between zones.

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7. Not Exploring What You Like First

The risk: Wasted money and unfulfilling experiences.

Fix it: Start with solo sessions. Learn what turns you on. Then bring in a toy to match.

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8. Sharing Without Protection

The risk: STIs and infections.

Fix it: Use condoms on toys you share. Or better yet, get one each.

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9. Forgetting to Replace Old Toys

The risk: Degraded materials, unsafe textures, and poor performance.

Fix it: If your toy looks damaged, smells odd, or has sticky patches—it’s time to say goodbye.

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10. Using Toys Without Fully Relaxing

The risk: Tension, discomfort, or inability to climax.

Fix it: Set the mood. Dim the lights, light a candle, put your phone on silent. You’re allowed to enjoy yourself.

✨ Create a ritual out of your pleasure—it’s self-care, not just sex.

💋 Final Thoughts

Sex toys should make your life better, not confusing or risky. Avoid these mistakes, and you’ll not only enjoy safer, more satisfying play—you’ll also get way more bang for your buck (literally).

💎 Ready to do it right?

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